
january1975
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Re: request for modification
07/19/11 06:01 PM
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Thank you everyone for posting, even the not so nice ones! Anyways...just got served papers from the wonderful ex, he's requesting primary custody, with me having visitations. All this because I requested a review of child support. i Went to legal aid for help, and guess what I found out? his attorney is on the board of directors! I've been ordered to go to mediation, and a general magistrate? Don't even know what half this stuff means. Oh, and the kicker...he's asking me to pay his attorney fees and court costs!! Legal Aid reviews their cases every monday so im waiting for something in the mail to see if they will accept my case or not. Not looking to good with his atty being on the board, but what other choice do I have? I can barely put food on the table as it is. I hate myself for allowing this to happen. Trying to be strong when all i wanna do is crawl in my bed and cry!!! He refuses to return the kids when he's home from offshore (even though the divorce papers say he only has every other weekend), he refuses to supply me with medical insurance cards, he takes them out of state without consent..it’s like I don’t even exist when he has the kids. I’m on SSDI due to health issues I’ve had for years, health issues the ex has known about. I just started receiving SSDI last year, he states in his petition that I have health issues that negatively affect my ability to care for the children! He’s fighting dirty. My house is immaculate! My kids have never gone without anything they need. They live outside of the school district that I take them to every morning so they can have a better education. My son just received an award for receiving the highest grade possible on a state exam. I have had more comments from adults that have been around my children for their manners and behavior. I’m shocked he would accuse me of not being able to care for my kids. What an insult! How in the world do you fight these allegations? Am I going to lose my kids? Not to mention the numerous times he’s tried to seduce me over the years, while married to another woman.
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