
Brian13
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Being there for your children - military divorce
08/08/11 01:19 PM
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Folks.
Great to be here in this awesome forum.
One word of advice - is to be there for your children if you have any. Why? well your children were not involved in you both meeting, dating and or getting married. they didn't create any good or hard feelings between you both. They are not involved in anything that you and your spouse hate about each other.
What I mean is they do not have the same perspective of the spouse as you could. They are not married but just a product of your coming together and making a child.
Children are smarter than you think and will go down the wrong path if they feel some comfort there. Drugs, sex whatever... So the killing of the pain of your absence will win out if you are not actively guiding that child with the healing love only found in a parent.
They are going to have so many haywire moments in their mind trying to figure what they did wrong. Nip it in the BUD!
Be well
b- :grin:
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