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mcintyremom
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Re: Is this considered abuse??

08/10/11 08:16 AM

Yes, I am in the process of gathering paperwork to file. He has had four jobs since retiring and quit each one. He makes double my salary each time. He refuses to take medication, go to the doctor or apply for disability or any other type of help. When we do talk about divorce he tells me that I am not getting any of his pension because how would he live. At this time, he sits home every day waiting for me to come home from work so he can start screaming about things, making accusations and ranting. He will cook, but he doesn't do anything else, no maintenance around the house, no housework, laundry, or anything else. I am expected to do that plus work my job. I have worked our entire 29 years of marriage, plus raise our 3 kids, done the stuff that needed to be done, moved at least 10 times, but now he is entitled to stay home with his pension while I continue to work until I am worn out? I already am! So I am going to go for half his pension and half of everything else. We got married at 19 and 20, we are now 48 and 49. Everything we have we earned together. He has managed to maintain a job and earn a pension, get his 4 year degree and is working on his masters (but he can't hold a job) and we couldn't "afford" my college, I changed jobs every 3 - 4 years, so no career, and now I am not entitled to anything he has done. So, what would you suggest?

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/27/10 10:55 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	10/26/10 09:00 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/28/10 06:06 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/28/10 11:29 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	finz	08/30/10 11:49 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	09/01/10 06:13 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	mcintyremom	08/08/11 12:48 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	DedicatedDad	08/09/11 04:04 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	mcintyremom	08/10/11 08:16 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	RebeccaFein	08/04/11 01:40 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	palmel1234	09/03/10 10:09 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	almostheaven	09/03/10 11:42 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/29/10 01:31 PM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	Maury	08/29/10 12:03 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	connie60	08/29/10 10:06 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	TomatoFace	10/21/10 12:11 PM
Look at the other side of it...	almostheaven	08/30/10 06:39 AM
Re: Is this considered abuse??	javajunkiee	08/29/10 01:46 PM

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