
JohnAnthony
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Re: NEED HELP, PLEASE READ, WHAT TO DO
08/15/11 09:22 AM
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Sorry, forgot to mention that we have had two previous occasion where she was haveing lunch with other men and admitted it was moving to an affair or was at that point. I realize i am insecure, but does the fact that she went to a motel to meet someone give me reason, or should i just turn a blind eye and had i not had her followed i would never know and is it better to never know. I think she was using the happiness cry to get a seperation to test out the waters with this other person and keep me on the backburner until she knew how things were going to go and by having her followed, i caught her in her affair and now have to decide what to do. I know it seems obvious, but I love this woman and want to work on our issues, but have no clue what she is thinking. If I had trusted her, i would have no idea she is having an affair, its called a gut feeling and i acted on, i know it wasn't right, but it showed me the truth, which is what she should have given me instead of using her happiness as an excuse for a seperation to try her new found affair and keep me on the backburner.
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