Annie7676
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You know what to do..
08/15/11 04:49 PM
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Yes you made a committment so long ago...but its obvious from her actions that she has reneged on that committment..
what to do, well there are many things..you can hang on, try to save your marriage but if you are the only one doing that it is probably useless. At some point, reality has to set in. By being with other men she has pretty much shown you what she wants. People that love each other don't do this most of the time.
Cheating is a deal breaker.
Do you want this to be your life, hanging on to someone who is out at night...waiting...and being unhappy?
Yes divorce is sad and very hard but sometimes thats what has to happen.
You deserve to have a woman in your life who wants to be with you, not other men. Those of us that have had this happen, hang on and pray, beg, plead do whatever to get them to change their mind and usually they don't.
Get some legal advice, see what your rights are and plan for the future without her. Get some counseling and if she wants to try and save the marriage then go for it but if not....then end it, work on yourself and move forward.
It will be hard and it will be very sad, but it may be better then being thrown away.
Good luck.
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