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gr8Dad
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Re: i think im going to lose..
      08/16/11 12:18 PM

Okay, you screwed up bad virtually abandoned your daughter. Bad move, but I assume you know that at this point, no sense harping on it, you are here NOW, and you want to establish a relationship. Lets address the points one by one:

"One (1) week of visitation to include Easter for spring break on ODD NUMBERED YEARS. Even years are to be spent with mother."

BS, you get EVERY spring break.

"Two (2) weeks during summer break. Non-custodial parent must request his choice annually by May 1st. Non-custodial parent has 1st choice an ODD NUMBERED YEARS, Custodial parent has right to request certain holidays or other dates on EVEN NUMBERED YEARS for child to be home. But will still make it work for child to see Non-custodial parent on those years."

Okay, this is less than STANDARD summer parenting time for LOCAL parents. No WAY I would accept that. Four weeks MINIMUM, you get first pick EVERY year.

"One (1) week during winter break every year. This week shall include Christmas on ODD NUMBERED YEARS. Christmas is to be spent with custodial parent on EVEN NUMBERED YEARS."

This one is fair.

"TRANSPORTATION: custodial parent pays for airfare every other scheduled visit but father MUST pay for and chaperone her travel every visit."

My ASS. She wants to move, and she exects YOU to pay for transportation every other visit, AND for chaperoning EVERY visit? No way in HELL. SHE pays for ALL transportation, and SHE can arrange transport chaparone. You shouldn't have to PAY to see your child cause Mommy wants to move.

"ADDITIONAL: Also can have additional weekend’s local to child with pre-approval at least one (1) month prior."

"pre-approval" is too vague. Under that, she can simply say, "I don't approve", and you are out of luck.

Here is the deal. You NEED a lawyer. Doesn't matter what you can or cannot afford, you can't afford to NOT have a lawyer. Beg borrow and STEAL to get the funds and hire a GOOD lawyer (probably gonna need a retainer of at LEAST $5000).

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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* i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2 08/16/11 10:24 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. cincsu   08/18/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 10:55 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 11:06 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 12:18 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 12:23 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 12:25 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 12:34 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 12:43 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 12:53 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. finz   08/19/11 01:07 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 02:50 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 03:01 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/16/11 03:04 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 03:23 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. ssmom79   08/16/11 04:03 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 05:06 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. finz   08/19/11 01:09 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/19/11 09:35 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. Debi   08/16/11 08:47 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 08:52 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. Debi   08/17/11 07:19 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/17/11 08:51 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/16/11 09:22 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/17/11 08:59 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. kkimberh   08/17/11 09:21 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. gr8Dad   08/16/11 05:41 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/16/11 03:32 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 03:46 PM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/16/11 11:16 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 11:25 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. LexieBelle   08/16/11 11:45 AM
. * * Re: i think im going to lose.. concernedfather2   08/16/11 12:19 PM

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