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finz
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Re: Separation

08/21/11 01:43 AM

Annie.....Yay ! Good for you !

TDY.....You've got a few MAJOR areas of concern. The European guy and your wife's possible desire to live in Europe are issues you are guessing about. I'm not saying to ignore those issues, but I would start with focusing on what you do know with certainty....You have vastly different values concerning money. That alone could lead to a miserable life together.

Money fights are a big deal in marriage and a major cause for divorce. Maybe it was hard to tell that you had such different values when you first got toghether because you were both ramen noodle grad students, but now you are getting a glimpse of what the rest of your life might be like. Think long and hard about if you can really deal with that. Even her decision that you must live seperately while she figures out what she wants is costing you more money. That doesn't sound like someone who is willing to consider your needs at all.

Give some thought to how much more debt she could run up in the next few years. The only way to not share half of it is to stop the ticker by divorcing. Sorry to be blunt, but I'd also consider that her chances of alimony are less now, while you are unemployed too.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Separation	tdymadison	08/19/11 03:35 AM
Re: Separation	Annie7676	08/20/11 10:06 AM
Re: Separation	tdymadison	08/20/11 11:30 AM
Re: Separation	finz	08/21/11 01:43 AM

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