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Debi
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Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars
      08/21/11 11:14 PM

No one can give you suggetions to make him step up because there aren't any. You can't FORCE him to do it because there is no law that says the NCP has to take their parenting time, only that YOU (the CP) have to make it available at scheduled times.

You have a few choices here.......1)You keep her every Friday and make sure she gets to all practices and "sacrifice" to do that, because that's what parents do and let him pick her up after on his weekends .2) You ignore the fact that he may not get her there and let whatever happens, happen or 3) you use YAH's suggestion and re-adjust parenting times to be sure your daughter gets where she needs to be.

You've already shot down YAH's idea, you've already complained about keeping her on Friday's and you've said that the practices are not optional. Not really sure where that leaves your daughter but she's the only one I'm feeling bad for about now. It must suck to be stuck in the middle of parents who argue over who's responsibility you are.

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* Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina 08/21/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars Debi   08/21/11 11:14 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars ssmom79   08/22/11 09:32 AM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/22/11 09:00 AM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars MrsB   08/22/11 09:17 AM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars youngatheart   08/21/11 07:08 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/21/11 08:56 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars youngatheart   08/21/11 09:24 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars MrsB   08/21/11 09:01 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/21/11 09:06 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars youngatheart   08/21/11 09:27 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/21/11 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars Goodmom   08/22/11 07:52 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars youngatheart   08/21/11 09:57 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/21/11 09:42 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars MrsB   08/21/11 09:41 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars despedina   08/21/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars MrsB   08/21/11 09:38 PM

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