gr8Dad
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Re: need opinions...i called cps...
08/24/11 09:17 PM
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I have to add something here. First of all, apparently I missed it, you seem to indicate that he HASN'T spoken to you about the problem, but if you could verify that, I would appreciate it.
Now I want you to consider something. You wrote:
"I have sole legal custody and any medical changes and concerns need to come by me first. But besides that...what happened to co-parenting?"
Can you see how this line indicates dual expectations? You are, on one hand, telling him that YOU have SOLE and FINAL say in ALL things...and then asking why HE can't "co-parent". Essentially, you are saying HE won't co-parent, because he won't give YOU all the control. One person having sole say in everything is NOT co-parenting. As a matter of fact, that is the OPPOSITE of co-parenting. If you want him to be onboard with the decisions regarding the child, you have to admit that he is the child's parent just as much as you are, and should have some say.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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