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Re: need opinions...i called cps...
      08/25/11 04:33 PM

I guess that is what is bugging me the most. The way his actions are being viewed. Yeah, what he did, as I said, wasn't the best thing, it is being viewed as "selfish". Why is that? As a parent of a child with ADHD, I assure you, medication is not given so I have a more peaceful time, it is given to help the CHILD. And the DUAL view is even MORE frustrating. Mom medicates the kid so the kid can be successful. Dad medicates the kid and he is painted like he ONLY did it so the kid wouldn't be a pain in the butt to Dad. Mom brags how the "structure" in the kids life is what she uses to control him. Well, its REALLY hard to have "structure" with a child you only get one evening a week (not counting weekends).

Now, we have debated whether Mom KNEW about how the child was acting at Dad's. We know that Dad didn't TELL Mom there was a problem. My question THEN would be, why didn;t she ASK? She BRAGGED about how SHE has TOTAL say in ALL treatment issues. So why hasn't she ASKED Dad how the child was acting? When you take SOLE control of something, you also have SOLE responsibility. But HER time with the child is fine because of the treatment plan. She had a RESPONSIBILITY to SEEK out how things were going with Dad.

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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* need opinions...i called cps... celesteanne 08/23/11 05:36 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 09:17 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... ssmom79   08/24/11 09:27 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... MrsB   08/24/11 09:46 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... celesteanne   08/24/11 06:48 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 07:24 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... celesteanne   08/24/11 07:34 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 08:35 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 05:33 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/25/11 07:37 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 08:07 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... ssmom79   08/25/11 08:40 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 09:38 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... ssmom79   08/25/11 10:58 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 12:39 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... ssmom79   08/25/11 01:11 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/25/11 04:11 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... elliesmom   08/25/11 04:17 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/25/11 04:33 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Redlegg   08/25/11 04:56 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/25/11 05:39 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Redlegg   08/25/11 06:04 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/25/11 06:55 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... DedicatedDad   08/25/11 05:18 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... elliesmom   08/25/11 03:41 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... c_jane   08/25/11 10:53 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... ssmom79   08/25/11 08:42 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... LexieBelle   08/25/11 06:41 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 07:31 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... LexieBelle   08/25/11 08:25 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 09:31 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... SweetLight   08/24/11 09:29 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 09:36 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... finz   08/25/11 02:48 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... SweetLight   08/24/11 09:56 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 10:39 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... celesteanne   08/24/11 07:58 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... finz   08/23/11 05:59 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/23/11 06:18 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... finz   08/23/11 09:46 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/23/11 10:32 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/24/11 07:15 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 07:25 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/24/11 07:33 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 08:31 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/24/11 09:15 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/24/11 09:22 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/25/11 05:30 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/24/11 09:11 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Redlegg   08/24/11 08:03 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... LexieBelle   08/24/11 08:51 AM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... Goodmom   08/24/11 07:20 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... finz   08/23/11 09:55 PM
. * * Re: need opinions...i called cps... gr8Dad   08/23/11 05:54 PM

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