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Re: Problems with EX
      09/02/11 01:59 PM

This story reminds me of how stupid ex and I were at the beginning of our case. Constantly trying to hurt each other and jockey for position while not having our son as first priority. Luckily, after just a few months I came to my senses and stopped the bullsh!t. Meaning, I gave my ex a chance. I made it easy for him to bond. I kept my mouth shut. I left the courts out of it. And most importantly, I put myself in my ex's shoes. How would it feel to not be around this precious little baby 24/7? How would it feel for ex to not enjoy this daily? How would it feel to not have any control and have someone trying to take away the little bit of control I have? Your daughter needs to pump a bottle and give it to her ex. Make it easy for the baby and him. It will not hurt the child in this short timeframe away from the boob in the least and it will not take away from the breast feeding whatsoever. And if the baby doesn't like it at first, it will adjust. And in the long run, it's best for the baby to have two caring parents and to have two parents who try to get along. Look at the big picture...you have a long way to go. And during the next 18 years, get to know three little words...LET IT GO.

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* Problems with EX caroljean 09/01/11 06:46 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX RJ1   09/02/11 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 04:15 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 06:51 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX BeckaLeigh   09/04/11 09:26 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/03/11 09:26 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 06:53 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/03/11 07:11 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:07 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/03/11 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX LexieBelle   09/02/11 08:33 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 06:35 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 06:51 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/01/11 07:04 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Avaya   09/06/11 02:43 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/01/11 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/01/11 11:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 04:17 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 06:37 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/02/11 07:17 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/03/11 08:25 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/03/11 09:29 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/04/11 03:32 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/04/11 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX DedicatedDad   09/04/11 12:25 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX kkimberh   09/02/11 08:55 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX LexieBelle   09/02/11 09:43 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 12:26 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 03:14 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/03/11 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 07:04 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX BeckaLeigh   09/03/11 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Buckeye   09/02/11 09:35 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 11:53 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Maury   09/02/11 12:56 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 01:40 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 07:17 PM

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