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Debi
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Re: Problems with EX
      09/03/11 12:17 PM

Here's another question I didn't see asked.....If mom is providing millk before DURING and after the visit but dad is not allowed to give the baby a bottle that must mean that mom is there during the visit, no? That should absolutely NOT be allowed.

No one should discount a baby's senses. Even if she can't "see" mom she can more than likely smell her and or hear her voice and that is going to set her up for agitation. Not to mention both parents are probably aggrevated to begin with which will stress baby out. When that happens she is naturally going to want mom, her primary caregiver and source of food. Dad doesn't stand a chance.

Only hearing one side it's hard to determine if dad is really this big of an ass or if the story is being padded, but being around as long as I have I have to go with the second. Let's bring up the pacifier issue again....How is mom demanding that the supervisor stop the visit if dad gives the child a pacifier unless she is there. The supervisor should be neutral (especially in this case) and I can only think that it sounds like mom is there yelling at her to stop the visit. Sounds like she's in a difficult situation.

To the OP.....I've guessing that the paternity test is going to show that he is the father. He is showing up at the visits and he is going to get unsupervised parenting time. Your daughters attorney is correct. There is nothing he can do. This man has the least amount of time with the child as possible. It's not going to be stopped completely simply because he is not following mom's instructions. Once the child is with him for extended periods there will be many difference in parenting style issues and the courts don't care. A pacifier is not detrimental to a baby. It may not be the prefered method of comfort by some but it's not going to harm her.

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. * * Re: Problems with EX BeckaLeigh   09/04/11 09:26 AM
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. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/03/11 07:11 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:07 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/03/11 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX LexieBelle   09/02/11 08:33 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 06:35 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 06:51 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/01/11 07:04 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Avaya   09/06/11 02:43 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/01/11 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/01/11 11:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 04:17 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 06:37 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/02/11 07:17 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/03/11 08:25 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/03/11 09:29 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/04/11 03:32 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX elliesmom   09/04/11 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX DedicatedDad   09/04/11 12:25 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX kkimberh   09/02/11 08:55 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX LexieBelle   09/02/11 09:43 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 12:26 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX caroljean   09/03/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 03:14 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Debi   09/03/11 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Goodmom   09/02/11 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 07:04 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX BeckaLeigh   09/03/11 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Buckeye   09/02/11 09:35 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 11:53 PM
. * * Re: Problems with EX Maury   09/02/11 12:56 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/02/11 01:40 AM
. * * Re: Problems with EX gr8Dad   09/01/11 07:17 PM

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