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elliesmom
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Re: Problems with EX

09/03/11 07:11 PM

The thing is - his visits aren't going to be more limited than they are unless he is hurting the baby. Trying to force a baby to take a pacifier is not abuse - I hope. None of my 3 ever did, but boy did I try! Sometimes its not convenient to whip out your breasts - cross country train trip with infant twins - and you are desperate to avoid disturbing others. I still don't understand why the supervisor is cutting off the visits - if it is truly over the pacifier - I can see him winning this one. I mean *I* had every right to try and force my kids to take one - so does he. Its not something most kids take to right away, it takes a while. I don't get the big deal - baby will either take it or it won't - as long as he isn't duct taping the thing to the kids face (which I admit to fantasizing about, LOL), why bother interfering?

Personally I would focus on the other issues - stalking, threats, etc. And maybe ask that he be accompanied by someone he trusts who has experience with babies on the visits to help him get more comfortable - so the baby will at least not be miserable. Because it doesn't sound like he is going away, or doing anything actionable by your daughter.

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Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 06:46 PM
Re: Problems with EX	RJ1	09/02/11 01:59 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 04:15 AM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 06:51 PM
Re: Problems with EX	BeckaLeigh	09/04/11 09:26 AM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/03/11 09:26 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 06:53 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/03/11 07:11 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:07 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/03/11 07:14 PM
Re: Problems with EX	LexieBelle	09/02/11 08:33 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 06:35 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 06:51 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 07:04 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Avaya	09/06/11 02:43 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/01/11 07:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 11:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 04:17 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 06:37 AM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/02/11 07:17 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 07:41 AM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/03/11 08:25 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/03/11 09:29 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/04/11 03:32 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/04/11 09:29 AM
Re: Problems with EX	DedicatedDad	09/04/11 12:25 PM
Re: Problems with EX	kkimberh	09/02/11 08:55 AM
Re: Problems with EX	LexieBelle	09/02/11 09:43 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 12:26 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:10 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:13 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 03:14 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 03:30 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/03/11 12:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 06:15 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 07:04 PM
Re: Problems with EX	BeckaLeigh	09/03/11 10:55 AM
Re: Problems with EX	Buckeye	09/02/11 09:35 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 11:53 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Maury	09/02/11 12:56 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 01:40 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 07:17 PM

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