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elliesmom
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Re: Problems with EX

09/04/11 09:29 AM

Bottom line - what is your long term goal?

Unless he is a threat to the child's safety - he WILL end up with at least every other weekend - probably no later than 1 yr old. So what does your daughter want to see happen in the interim given that is almost a given outcome? I would hope she doesn't want him to be a stranger - imagine how scary that would be.

Personally - I would try to get the supervisor to find an alternative to ending the visit after only a few minutes. No one is helped by him not learning to know (and vice versa) and care for his child. Perhaps ask that he be required to complete some child care class.

If the stalking doesn't calm down - then I would also ask that he have a psych eval done.

While I do think you and your daughter have exascerbated this situation (his personality problem) by turning a pacifier in a freakin legal issue, things will probably improve once he gets some of the control back. Its a scary thing to have your newborn ripped from you and having absolutely no time to bond, think if that had happened to your daughter? Well it happened to him. So he is not on his best behavior. Based on some of his past behavior - I would want the psych eval for peace of mind.

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Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 06:46 PM
Re: Problems with EX	RJ1	09/02/11 01:59 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 04:15 AM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 06:51 PM
Re: Problems with EX	BeckaLeigh	09/04/11 09:26 AM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/03/11 09:26 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 06:53 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/03/11 07:11 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:07 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/03/11 07:14 PM
Re: Problems with EX	LexieBelle	09/02/11 08:33 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 06:35 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 06:51 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 07:04 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Avaya	09/06/11 02:43 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/01/11 07:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/01/11 11:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 04:17 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 06:37 AM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/02/11 07:17 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 07:41 AM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/03/11 08:25 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/03/11 09:29 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/04/11 03:32 PM
Re: Problems with EX	elliesmom	09/04/11 09:29 AM
Re: Problems with EX	DedicatedDad	09/04/11 12:25 PM
Re: Problems with EX	kkimberh	09/02/11 08:55 AM
Re: Problems with EX	LexieBelle	09/02/11 09:43 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 12:26 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:10 PM
Re: Problems with EX	caroljean	09/03/11 07:13 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 03:14 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 03:30 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Debi	09/03/11 12:17 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Goodmom	09/02/11 06:15 PM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 07:04 PM
Re: Problems with EX	BeckaLeigh	09/03/11 10:55 AM
Re: Problems with EX	Buckeye	09/02/11 09:35 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 11:53 PM
Re: Problems with EX	Maury	09/02/11 12:56 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/02/11 01:40 AM
Re: Problems with EX	gr8Dad	09/01/11 07:17 PM

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