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modification contiued...even longer.
      09/10/11 01:49 PM

Our court date was set for Wed. Today I get a letter saying he retained a lawyer on Sept 1. asking for a continuance for at least 90 days. He had from mid July to mid august to appeal it. This was started in Nov. filed in Feb. so add 3 more month we are looking at 10 months of it being dragged out. (7 months of trying to serve him papers)

He is asking for the right to claim them on his taxes. 2 kids. 1 each year until 2014 then alternating.

I am not against this 100% but I wonder, what reasons are there to deny it?

My ex sees my kids less than 24 hours a month. He has EOW, weeknight dinner and 2wks summer. He does not use it. I am very flexible with him seeing them whenever. One problem I have is he communicates through them and doesn't give the courtesy of asking me, the kids do. 99% of the time the answer is yes.
With him having less than 6 overnight visits a year, and believe me I'm being generous, his doing nothing but paying cs is there reason to deny him?

I use the tax return for things the kids need usually and if there is anything left a small vacation. Yes, I know this doesn't matter to the courts but it does matter to the kids.

Thanks,

*** I wanted to add that I'm looking at what he could be setting me up for. There is usually an alterior motive with him. I can't see this causing any problems if I agree to it but has anyone experienced problems?

And yes. I do have a lawyer that I will be contacting next week.

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Edited by cpnebraska (09/10/11 01:56 PM)

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* modification contiued...even longer. cpnebraska 09/10/11 01:49 PM
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. * * Re: modification contiued...even longer. gr8Dad   09/11/11 01:04 PM
. * * Re: modification contiued...even longer. cpnebraska   09/11/11 01:59 PM
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