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Cassie23
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Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan

09/13/11 10:08 PM

I actually think it is unusual to be granted a move unless you have sole custody- which was your case LB. I know of several cases where a move was not granted far south in NY- only pertaining to those with JOINT custody.

There was a story here that I followed for years- out of SC. Mother moved and the father went to court and the judge ORDERED the mother to move BACK (over 100 miles). She had to come back for the year it took to finish up the case. The judge did GRANT the move with the father receiving substantial time during breaks and summer. In this case the father did not have a normal visitation schedule for the first five years of the child's life and only wanted to have regular visitation once the mother decided to move.

It really could go either way, but it will (most likely) take time and money UNLESS both parents can come to an agreement.

To the OP--- I would seriously consider giving your X as much time as possible, if you believe your child would not benefit from long periods with her father then you should consider not moving. Children need both their parents and you all (both parents and the child) will have to get used to the idea that there will be extended amounts of time without the child.

Also, be prepared to pay all transportation costs since you are the one moving.

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Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 10:27 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	RJ1	09/14/11 12:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	annieo	09/14/11 02:54 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 09:26 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:04 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 08:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:35 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 08:57 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 09:17 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/15/11 10:26 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 11:04 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	DedicatedDad	09/15/11 01:20 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	c_jane	09/15/11 01:28 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 01:27 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 11:40 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 11:47 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/15/11 06:33 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/16/11 07:44 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/16/11 05:11 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/17/11 09:32 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/18/11 06:32 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/18/11 11:44 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/19/11 06:09 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/20/11 07:10 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/21/11 12:39 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/26/11 07:29 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	c_jane	09/19/11 08:33 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/16/11 05:23 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 04:18 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 01:15 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 12:19 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 12:43 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 12:51 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 01:02 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 04:22 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 02:04 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 09:32 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 09:56 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 09:03 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Redlegg	09/15/11 09:24 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 09:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/14/11 11:11 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	annieo	09/14/11 10:28 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 12:23 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/15/11 12:45 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 06:33 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/15/11 05:22 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/16/11 01:57 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/16/11 11:55 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/16/11 04:55 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/16/11 09:41 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/14/11 09:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/13/11 10:41 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/13/11 12:21 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 10:43 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 08:40 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/14/11 07:55 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/13/11 03:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 09:53 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/14/11 01:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	DedicatedDad	09/14/11 01:16 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 06:29 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/13/11 10:08 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/13/11 11:22 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 08:42 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	elliesmom	09/14/11 03:39 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/13/11 08:52 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 10:02 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/13/11 11:10 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 06:36 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/13/11 10:13 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/13/11 10:30 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Avaya	09/13/11 12:54 PM

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