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Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan
      09/14/11 03:39 PM

I really don't understand the decision making here.

First - trying to move a kid 12 hours away will be hard. He has visitation and uses it. In the end IF you are allowed to move her expect those 50-60 days to be in the summer. 8 year olds don't get a vote. I would also expect to have to cover all costs of transportation for the visits.

I am not sure how you will prove he was intoxicated. Assuming he was - how on earth can you consider putting your daughter in that position - being 12 hours away and putting her on a plane to spend extended periods of time there?

My DH is in the military. We lived apart for a year once because it was in the best interest of his son that he not be carted to 3 highschools in one year (sophomore). You do what you have to (sometimes be the only parent to a snotty SK teenager for a year), to make sure the kids get taken care of.

You have no idea how this job offer will turn out. I would let him go, get a studio apartment, and see where things go with your D's father or your local job market for at least a year before I went through this nonsense.

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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/15/11 09:17 AM
. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan Cassie23   09/15/11 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/15/11 11:04 AM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan Sherron   09/15/11 01:27 PM
. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan youngatheart   09/15/11 11:40 AM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/16/11 07:44 AM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/17/11 09:32 AM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan Sherron   09/19/11 06:09 AM
. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan finz   09/20/11 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/21/11 12:39 PM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan SweetLight   09/14/11 11:11 PM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan Cassie23   09/13/11 10:08 PM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan elliesmom   09/14/11 03:39 PM
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. * * Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan LexieBelle   09/13/11 10:02 PM
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