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LexieBelle
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Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan

09/16/11 01:57 PM

I disagree. She has zero actual parenting experience, has no experience with raising a child never mind MOVING one, she has zero idea.

As for LI versus RI.. it's a no-brainer. I will give you my ex's statement "ANYWHERE but LI!" and "**I** wouldn't be here if I didn't have to be" and HE isn't staying there. It's generally a hellhole. He wouldn't debate that. As for moving to be near family.. well, easy for him to say he LIVES WITH the only family he has contact with and he hates that. He also does have other family resources in the forms of aunt and uncles etc if needed. My family is a little different in that there is me.. JUST ME. There are no other siblings, etc. I'm it. This was always a known deal, from the week he left.

All of that is just pieces of a bigger puzzle which is that, in general, everything about here is better than there. And that's not just about "here" it's about what results from being here. Dad makes more effort, time spent with dad is more productive/quality. Etc etc etc etc etc.

It was a good move, for good reasons.. people see exSO as THE REASON for the move. Not true. He was a catalyst.. an open door to walk through. Everything happens for a reason and while our relationship wasn't meant to last I absolutely 1000% believe we reconnected to get back up here. No doubt in my mind. And it's where we should be. No doubt. Ex knows that too. He's going to make more effort to spend more time up here I gather. Nothing crazy but just a day trip here and there. Which is fantastic. But ultimately? He's going to be in California where HE wants to be. And I will bet big money that'll happen before dd is 18. This is where her life is, that's where he wants HIS life to be.

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Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 10:27 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	RJ1	09/14/11 12:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	annieo	09/14/11 02:54 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 09:26 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:04 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 08:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:35 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 08:57 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 09:17 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/15/11 10:26 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 11:04 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	DedicatedDad	09/15/11 01:20 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	c_jane	09/15/11 01:28 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 01:27 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 11:40 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 11:47 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/15/11 06:33 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/16/11 07:44 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/16/11 05:11 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/17/11 09:32 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/18/11 06:32 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/18/11 11:44 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/19/11 06:09 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/20/11 07:10 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/21/11 12:39 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/26/11 07:29 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	c_jane	09/19/11 08:33 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/16/11 05:23 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 04:18 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 01:15 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 12:19 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 12:43 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 12:51 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 01:02 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 04:22 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/15/11 02:04 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/15/11 09:32 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 09:56 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/15/11 09:03 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/15/11 03:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Redlegg	09/15/11 09:24 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 09:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/14/11 11:11 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	annieo	09/14/11 10:28 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 12:23 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/15/11 12:45 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/15/11 06:33 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/15/11 05:22 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/16/11 01:57 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/16/11 11:55 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/16/11 04:55 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	SweetLight	09/16/11 09:41 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/14/11 09:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	finz	09/13/11 10:41 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/13/11 12:21 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 10:43 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 08:40 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	ssmom79	09/14/11 07:55 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/13/11 03:37 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 09:53 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	M5M5	09/14/11 01:15 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	DedicatedDad	09/14/11 01:16 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 06:29 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/13/11 10:08 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Sherron	09/13/11 11:22 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	relocatingmom	09/13/11 08:42 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	elliesmom	09/14/11 03:39 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/13/11 08:52 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/13/11 10:02 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	gr8Dad	09/13/11 11:10 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	LexieBelle	09/14/11 06:36 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Cassie23	09/13/11 10:13 PM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	youngatheart	09/13/11 10:30 AM
Re: Long Distance Parenting Plan	Avaya	09/13/11 12:54 PM

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