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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont
      09/29/11 01:31 PM

In the past five months of seperation there have been moments I've wanted to quit, but i don't know, I still have hope. When we interact with each other as friends, we're really good with each other. Surface talking, joking around, hanging out,...etc. it's all good. It's just when deeper issues about our marriage & these Real issues come up, we both tend to avoid talking about them and if we do then we fight because we both are too stubborn. And yes, you're right I should have NEVER gotten married, but I did. I gave him a chance because some part of me believed in him. I mean if a Man is willing to move his whole life and leave his family behind to be with you, doesn't that mean something??? And yes it has been 5 years of seperation but little progress. He's been really stubborn in telling me to move back in first & then try solving the big issues. And again I told him, "I don't want to jump in blindly again". Either we improve the relationship from the beginning or it won't make a difference. He's been a willing participant in coming to Therapy, but still he's adamant about wanting me to move back in with him. And he told me he WANTS a joint account, thats the only way i'll have access to whatever he's doing with money involved. His own words. Do i give in to his demands? Do i move back in and Try to resolve these big issues? And i'm just so frustrated in being Indecisive about what to do that I don't know how to tell him that it's over?? How do i tell him something like that even though he's been coming to Therapy and is now opening up to talking about things, that all of a sudden i want a divorce??

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* PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP 09/27/11 12:31 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont SherryCalhoun   06/04/12 02:40 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont yregna   10/03/11 10:25 AM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont BeachBabeRN   10/03/11 11:56 AM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/04/11 12:59 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont Debi   10/04/11 01:18 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/04/11 02:29 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont Debi   10/04/11 08:31 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont BeachBabeRN   10/05/11 07:55 AM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/05/11 02:45 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont DedicatedDad   10/06/11 03:41 AM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/07/11 12:53 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/07/11 04:07 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont buckwheat   10/10/11 08:48 AM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   10/04/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   09/27/11 12:44 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont BeachBabeRN   09/28/11 06:37 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont INEEDSOMEHELP   09/29/11 01:31 PM
. * * Re: PLEASE HELP ME I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO - cont BeachBabeRN   09/29/11 07:37 PM

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