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Re: it takes courage to post here...
      10/04/11 08:26 AM

Here's a general question. What would have happened if he had just passed away? You would have still been on the hook to raise the kids, and even with SS benefits, would have had to get a job anyways.

The point being, you were fully cognizant of the reality that by having so many children, that your life was going to be tied to their raising one way or another. That's a choice you made on your own, since you were the gatekeeper to deciding whether or not it was plausible to add another child once the 1st one was born.

I don't know what state you're in...let's say it's Missouri or Kansas as we got a ton of Auto Workers in KC the last 2 years who transferred from other parts of the midwest. If you go to court, even with that many kids you're probably not looking at more than 2500/month total. Even bump it up to 3k...it's not going to be enough. You'll have to find something.

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* it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked 10/01/11 10:40 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... spinnerdegrassi   10/02/11 06:59 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/02/11 07:30 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... finz   10/03/11 02:58 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... spinnerdegrassi   10/02/11 07:35 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... Renny   10/02/11 05:04 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... yregna   10/03/11 10:23 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/03/11 12:59 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... DedicatedDad   10/03/11 01:32 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... elliesmom   10/03/11 02:54 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... finz   10/03/11 03:42 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... hanzblinx   10/03/11 04:21 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... hanzblinx   10/03/11 10:42 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/03/11 05:18 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/03/11 10:05 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... spinnerdegrassi   10/04/11 08:26 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/04/11 10:31 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... finz   10/12/11 01:56 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... M5M5   10/04/11 04:33 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... DedicatedDad   10/04/11 06:24 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... spinnerdegrassi   10/04/11 11:40 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... Debi   10/04/11 08:27 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/05/11 01:13 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/05/11 01:29 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/05/11 08:06 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... javajunkiee   10/07/11 09:09 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/05/11 09:20 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... Sherron   10/05/11 08:37 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/03/11 06:02 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/03/11 10:17 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... finz   10/12/11 01:36 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... hanzblinx   10/04/11 10:22 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... annieo   10/03/11 10:53 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... Renny   10/03/11 11:28 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/02/11 11:57 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/02/11 12:16 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/02/11 01:29 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... DedicatedDad   10/02/11 02:33 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... elliesmom   10/02/11 01:19 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... DedicatedDad   10/02/11 08:30 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... gr8Dad   10/01/11 10:56 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 8kidsandshocked   10/01/11 11:14 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... gr8Dad   10/01/11 11:53 PM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... annieo   10/02/11 12:17 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/02/11 06:52 AM
. * * Re: it takes courage to post here... 1goodman   10/02/11 06:58 AM

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