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Debi
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Re: it takes courage to post here...

10/04/11 08:27 PM

I have to agree with spinner. Other than the resident idiots everyone has given you good and stable advice. You may have never relied on public assistance before but you will have to consider it now. There is no shame in someone in your position accepting help. That is what the programs were designed for. the bottom line is you will have to have an income and with the number of children you have you will get daycare assistance. I doubt you'd have to pay any of it. You'd also qualify for food assistance. Your children need to eat and you owe it to them to make sure they do.

You are going to have to make all of your plans with the belief that he is not going to change his mind, because if you hold on to that hope you're going to be homeless before you know it. You said you are strong....then pull up your boot straps and DO something. What's not fair doesn't really amount to a hill of beans. You can continue to hold on to the promises and mutually agreed upon decisions but him leaving pretty much trumps all of that.

I don't think you are out to get something for nothing or to bleed him dry, but you are not ever going to get what you believe you deserve. Which from what i gather is for him to live up to everything you've built together. Start figuring out how you will do it on your own.

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When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.

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it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/01/11 10:40 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	spinnerdegrassi	10/02/11 06:59 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/02/11 07:30 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	finz	10/03/11 02:58 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	spinnerdegrassi	10/02/11 07:35 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	Renny	10/02/11 05:04 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	yregna	10/03/11 10:23 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/03/11 12:59 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	DedicatedDad	10/03/11 01:32 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	elliesmom	10/03/11 02:54 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	finz	10/03/11 03:42 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	hanzblinx	10/03/11 04:21 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	hanzblinx	10/03/11 10:42 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/03/11 05:18 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/03/11 10:05 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	spinnerdegrassi	10/04/11 08:26 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/04/11 10:31 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	finz	10/12/11 01:56 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	M5M5	10/04/11 04:33 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	DedicatedDad	10/04/11 06:24 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	spinnerdegrassi	10/04/11 11:40 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	Debi	10/04/11 08:27 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/05/11 01:13 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/05/11 01:29 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/05/11 08:06 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	javajunkiee	10/07/11 09:09 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/05/11 09:20 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	Sherron	10/05/11 08:37 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/03/11 06:02 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/03/11 10:17 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	finz	10/12/11 01:36 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	hanzblinx	10/04/11 10:22 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	annieo	10/03/11 10:53 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	Renny	10/03/11 11:28 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/02/11 11:57 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/02/11 12:16 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/02/11 01:29 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	DedicatedDad	10/02/11 02:33 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	elliesmom	10/02/11 01:19 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	DedicatedDad	10/02/11 08:30 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	gr8Dad	10/01/11 10:56 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	8kidsandshocked	10/01/11 11:14 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	gr8Dad	10/01/11 11:53 PM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	annieo	10/02/11 12:17 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/02/11 06:52 AM
Re: it takes courage to post here...	1goodman	10/02/11 06:58 AM

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