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Re: You know what to do..
      10/06/11 09:13 AM

John, unless there are children from your union with this woman, RUN FROM HER. Seriously, screwing around is a deal-breaker UNLESS there's children involved. Then, the greater good is at stake. Trust me, you can stay with someone whos cheated if your CHILDREN are at stake. But if not, gather your self-respect, collect your dignity, turn off the love and consideration, AND LEAVE. If I didnt have 7 children with my wife, I would have left her in '09. If I didnt have 7 children with my wife, I would NOT be in counceling moving toward reconciliation now after being slapped and punched by her a month ago. My wife has been with 4 other men outside the marriage in the 16 years we've been together. The first two, I chocked up to youthful confusion, before our children came along (my HUGE mistake). I forgave and let them both go. Then, 6 kids in 8 years, I find out shes screwed 1 neighbors husband once, and was is in a 4 month affair with another neigbor who is also married. Both deals, unprotected, under my trusting nose. My wife even did [censored] pics for the last guy, which she would NEVER do for me, which I found on her computer, which led to her getting busted. YET, for two years, I stayed, trying to get the marriage in "recovery", have ANOTHER child with her, move, let the big house go to foreclosure... then a month ago, she assaults me in anger during a argument about NOTHING. THEN, I left. But my 7 younger children are suffering, my pastor is helping, God calls me to forgive, so Im going back. BUT I HAVE CHILDREN WITH HER ! My point is, if you DONT have children with her, SHE WILL DO THIS TO YOU AGAIN. Even if you HAVE children, shes likely to cheat again. Brace yourself for a lot of humility, crow eating, deep-seeded anger management, betrayal... OR DIVORCE HER ! Leave now while you have an ounce of dignity left.

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* NEED HELP, PLEASE READ, WHAT TO DO JohnAnthony 08/15/11 08:15 AM
. * * You know what to do.. Annie7676   08/15/11 04:49 PM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. JohnAnthony   08/16/11 08:01 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. DedicatedDad   08/16/11 10:01 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. JohnAnthony   08/18/11 08:50 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. DedicatedDad   08/18/11 01:51 PM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. Annie7676   08/18/11 05:25 PM
. * * infidelity Benthic1965   11/08/12 03:58 PM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. dobralov   04/02/12 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. MEBlack   06/23/12 03:51 PM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. Soccerdad39   04/02/12 09:51 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. 8KidsNotShocked   10/06/11 09:13 AM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. buckwheat   10/10/11 08:44 AM
. * * I am wondering how you are doing? margi   11/11/11 01:14 PM
. * * Re: I am wondering how you are doing? JohnAnthony   01/05/12 12:45 AM
. * * Re: I am wondering how you are doing? yregna   01/25/12 04:01 PM
. * * Re: You know what to do.. bearlovergu   09/29/11 12:02 AM
. * * Re: NEED HELP, PLEASE READ, WHAT TO DO DedicatedDad   08/15/11 09:09 AM
. * * Re: NEED HELP, PLEASE READ, WHAT TO DO JohnAnthony   08/15/11 09:22 AM
. * * Re: NEED HELP, PLEASE READ, WHAT TO DO DedicatedDad   08/15/11 10:05 AM

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