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Re: Master is going to speak to my children
      10/10/11 04:29 PM

Okay, first off, marijuana is not addictive.

"He claims he quit in 2008 when I told him I wanted a divorce. Not true, my kids found his pot just a few months ago, he left the ball park during a baseball game (to move his truck he said) and when he called me after I filed the emergency petition (which he never calls me, he always talks through the kids) he made it a point to say he quit in 08 but that he smoked a little bit in August (right before I filed). Addicts will say anything..."

Um, he ADMITTED he smoked. "Addicts" don't do that.

"My kids also still talk about how he lays around on the couch... (burnout)."

So I take it that at your house you never sit down and are CONSTANTLY in motion at all times? You DO realize that the "burnout" thing is a MYTH, right?

"He called me for the first time in almost 2 years to try and now all of the sudden, try to come to some sort of undrstanding when I have been trying to get him to communicate for the past 2 years about the kids and he refused..... now all of the sudden he acts like he wants to settle things together with therapy and co-parenting and all that, we tried all that and he just gave up when he realized I wasn't coming back. So why the sudden change of heart, because he's scared his true drug addiction will finally be proved. He's very clever and has never been caught."

So you WANT him to do certain things, he is BEGINING to do those certain things, and your are now questioning WHY? Perhaps the time away from the kids or the threat of losing them has given him a change of heart?

You are faced with an opportunity. He is willing to work with you now, why not ACCEPT it (on your terms) and go with it?

I assure you, I have EXTENSIVE experience in court, and they will NOT reduce or eliminate his parenting time because he MIGHT smoke weed occasionally. Maybe if he was smoking it WITH them, but not for just smoking it. Weed is on the VERGE of being legalized anyway.

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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* Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more 10/08/11 07:22 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children gr8Dad   10/10/11 12:02 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/10/11 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children gr8Dad   10/10/11 04:29 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children Renny   10/10/11 04:41 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children annieo   10/10/11 07:05 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/15/11 10:50 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children buckwheat   10/15/11 10:54 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/15/11 11:01 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children buckwheat   10/15/11 11:06 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/15/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/10/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children finz   10/12/11 12:55 AM
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. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children gr8Dad   10/11/11 10:03 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children annieo   10/10/11 10:08 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/10/11 10:43 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children c_jane   10/11/11 09:36 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children buckwheat   10/11/11 07:54 AM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children annieo   10/10/11 11:18 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/08/11 02:23 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children annieo   10/08/11 02:28 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children naive_no_more   10/08/11 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Master is going to speak to my children Renny   10/08/11 10:06 AM

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