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Re: Mom's dilemna
      10/29/11 07:49 AM

You said:

I never said that there wasn't a difference in the time spent with each parent. I said they're still a parent...the kids still have both parents.

My response:

Even when the parents are together, there is a difference in time spent with each parent. Divorce isn't going to change that.

You said:

And NCP's can still teach their kids to swim, ride a bike, shoot a gun, cook, sew. They can still take the kids camping, enjoy dinners with them, have nighttime talks. They can still attend soccer games, ballet recitals, school concerts.

My response:

My ex only has the kids EOW. Guess who taught them how to swim? My ex did a better job than the swim lessons that they went to when he and I were still together.

He has also taken them camping, hiking, biking, pretty much everything that he did with them when we were still together.

While he doesn't attend every sports game anymore, he does take them on his week-ends and when the youngest has her recital in June, he will be there regardless of whose week-end it is.

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