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Goodmom
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Re: Mom's dilemna

10/30/11 02:14 PM

You said:

What I have noticed is that almost every person who comes out against 50/50 over the years is female,

My response:

You really can't go by a small community message board. Because there are plenty of men who don't agree with it, either.

You said:

as they seem to believe that they (not the kids) have something to lose in the process.

My response:

You are jumping to an erroneous conclusion based on your personal bias. All one has to do is read all your posts about your mom.

I am against a presumption of 50/50 physical as it does not take the individual into consideration. Add to that a parent who insists on it because s/he has the right to parent at least half the time, you have a scenario that is going to cause harm to a child because that is a parent who doesn't get that parenting is not about their rights, but about doing what is right for the kids.

This is not to say that I haven't seen cases where one party comes in wanting to limit that parenting time because of the child support, but also admitted that both the kids and the other parent wanted more time with each other. That's just as bad as the parent who insists on 50/50 physical when the child can't handle it. And as bad as the parent who is pushing for 50/50 simply to limit their child support order (which does happen more than you think it does).

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Mom's dilemna	samatha	10/24/11 07:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	SRS	10/26/11 07:39 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Anything4Love	10/27/11 12:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/27/11 03:18 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/27/11 04:42 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/01/11 07:34 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 10:06 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/01/11 11:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:49 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/02/11 12:34 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/27/11 04:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/28/11 08:58 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 10:15 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/29/11 07:49 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:34 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/29/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:39 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 02:01 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 10:29 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:48 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 10:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:28 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/31/11 12:33 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	11/01/11 06:47 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:36 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 11:38 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/01/11 12:51 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 10:12 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 10:30 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 10:52 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:06 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 11:08 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:19 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 12:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 01:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/01/11 02:41 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 09:04 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/02/11 11:24 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 11:38 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/02/11 12:10 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/02/11 12:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 12:58 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/02/11 01:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 02:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 04:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:41 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:49 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 04:54 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:00 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:04 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/02/11 10:16 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 10:17 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/02/11 08:11 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:32 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/03/11 08:24 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	11/02/11 07:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/02/11 10:26 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Redlegg	11/02/11 08:48 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 01:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 01:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 06:58 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 07:54 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 12:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 12:28 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/30/11 01:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 12:46 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 01:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:14 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 12:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 09:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/01/11 05:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 09:08 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:00 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:16 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/02/11 10:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 10:23 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:16 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:22 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/03/11 01:26 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	11/03/11 05:51 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	SweetLight	11/04/11 01:14 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:33 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:38 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/01/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:09 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:15 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 07:10 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/01/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 09:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 09:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/30/11 09:18 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:50 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 08:04 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 05:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 05:17 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/29/11 12:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/29/11 10:55 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/28/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/28/11 09:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 11:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Debi	10/24/11 10:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Renny	10/24/11 11:33 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	samatha	10/25/11 01:15 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	c_jane	10/25/11 08:49 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	javajunkiee	10/24/11 07:32 PM

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