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Re: Mom's dilemna
      10/30/11 09:52 PM

You are making presumption that simply isn't the case. Presumption of 50-50 does NOT mean everyone must have it. In the state I dealt with that has the law it simply means absent evidence to the contrary - it is best. Typically what happens is 50-50 is ordered in the temp orders if either party wants it and no evidence is presented that would counter this being safe and good for the kids - so that by the time a judge must make a final decision - he has actual evidence as to how the situation will/will not work.

Without the law? One person - usually possession is 9/10s - is given temp custody and unless they are male or a female who puts the child in grave danger - they will keep it. There is nothing in that standard that really even PRETENDS to try to best serve the kids.

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* Mom's dilemna samatha 10/24/11 07:05 PM
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