youngatheart
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Re: Mom's dilemna
11/01/11 09:08 PM
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>>>Yet it fits your case perfectly based on prior posts of what you will and won't do for your ex even if it means trying to facilitate a relationship with your children's father.<<<
LMAO...you have NO idea what you're talking about.
>>>Bet you like that monthly check that comes like clock work for you - you know the child allotment based on your ex being disabled - curious - does he get to keep any of it to use on the children or do you get the entire allotment?<<<
Are you assuming that I am living on the child support my kids receive? You'd be wrong. My income covers 100% of our monthly expenses, plus some. Yes, I get the entire allotment, as it's supposed to be.
>>>It may be stereotypical - but is true in so many situations - yours included - remember you were dead set against meeting your disabled ex because he moved even if it did help your children because by God HE moved - even though you were looking at moving too. You also sign your children up for multiple activites which limit their fathers time and according to you if he wants to see them more he can just get himself to the activities and by God they will NOT miss any activities even if it means more time with Dad - we all know 50/50 would never work in your situation - the kids could handle it - YOU can't and yes there is that like clock work check you would lose.........<<<
Again, you are WRONG. Yes, Ex moved. No, I'm not going to be held responsible for his decisions. Nor should I be. Yes, our kids are in activities, and no, they are not going to miss them, nor should they have to. FTR...Ex 100% agrees with that, and it's a part of our AGREED UPON Court Order. And once again, that "clock work check" is there to support our kids...not me. Nice try, though.
>>>Stereotypes become stereotypes for a reason - the control the CP tries/does exercise over the NCP happens ALL.THE.TIME.<<<
Or so some NCPs want people to believe so they can play the victim.
Would you be the NCP - highly unlikely - Goodmom said if it was in her childrens best interest she would - I doubt the same could be said for you. Who gets to determine what is the best interest - You, your ex, the children? And by what standards - the courts are suppose to do this yet if they really wanted the best interest it would be 50/50 - no it would not work in some cases but the MAJORITY of cases it would work - but we don't want to stereotype - the stereotype is the majority of women get the children along with a check to raise them and the man is relegated to ncp eow - there's a stereotype for ya - but you agree with this one right....
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