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DedicatedDad
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Re: Mom's dilemna

11/02/11 04:37 PM

It goes beyond parenting time. Twice my kids have been denied medical care at their regular provider until they got ahold of their mom on the phone for permission...and that's with shared legal and physical custody. Both of those visits were to regular scheduled visits, but their mom hadn't signed an annual "permission to treat" form yet.

As the NCP, I can't even bring them to the doctor unless it's the ER.

Another time I was at a local restaurant with the kids, and a GAL from the court recognized me in the lobby said it was nice to see me taking the kids out on my mid-week visit.

Mid week visit? I'd had the kids 50% or more of the time for the previous 11 years at the time.

Or, when it's time to have a child support hearing. CP is told to come to the courtroom 30 minutes early. I am to arrive 15 minutes early, but in another part of the building where the employees are behind bullet proof glass. When the hearing time arrives, a deputy arrives to escort and sit by me during the hearing, then I have to wait with them 15 minutes after the hearing so CP can be gone by the time I leave. This is standard with all CS cases in my county.

How many CP's have to go through degrading experiences like the above?

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Mom's dilemna	samatha	10/24/11 07:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	SRS	10/26/11 07:39 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Anything4Love	10/27/11 12:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/27/11 03:18 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/27/11 04:42 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/01/11 07:34 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 10:06 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/01/11 11:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:49 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	BeckaLeigh	11/02/11 12:34 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/27/11 04:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/28/11 08:58 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 10:15 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/29/11 07:49 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:34 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/29/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:39 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 02:01 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 10:29 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:48 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 10:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:28 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/31/11 12:33 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	11/01/11 06:47 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:36 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 11:38 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/01/11 12:51 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 10:12 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 10:30 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 10:52 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:06 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 11:08 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 11:19 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 12:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 01:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/01/11 02:41 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 09:04 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/02/11 11:24 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 11:38 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/02/11 12:10 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/02/11 12:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 12:58 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/02/11 01:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 02:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 04:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:41 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:49 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 04:54 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:00 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:04 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:05 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/02/11 10:16 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 10:17 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/02/11 08:11 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:32 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	11/03/11 08:24 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	11/02/11 07:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/02/11 10:26 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Redlegg	11/02/11 08:48 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	gr8Dad	11/01/11 01:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 01:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 06:58 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 07:54 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 12:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 12:28 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/30/11 01:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 12:46 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 01:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:14 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 12:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 09:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/01/11 05:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 09:08 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:00 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:16 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:25 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/02/11 10:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 10:23 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:16 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:22 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/03/11 01:26 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	11/03/11 05:51 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	SweetLight	11/04/11 01:14 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:33 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:38 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/01/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:09 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:15 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 07:10 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/01/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 09:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 09:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/30/11 09:18 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:50 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 08:04 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 05:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 05:17 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/29/11 12:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/29/11 10:55 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/28/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/28/11 09:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 11:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Debi	10/24/11 10:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Renny	10/24/11 11:33 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	samatha	10/25/11 01:15 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	c_jane	10/25/11 08:49 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	javajunkiee	10/24/11 07:32 PM

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