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Re: Mom's dilemna
      11/02/11 07:43 PM

>>>I only know what you have posted over the last couple years - please enlighten me as to where I do not know what I am talking about??"

I am getting my ASSumptions from your prior posts........so were you misrepresenting your self/situation then? I'm not making assumptions - it comes from your posts on the sfb.<<<

OMG...you mean, we have disagreements?!?!? OHHHH the HORRORS. What parents don't? I don't know a single set of parents, married or divorced, who has never had disagreements. We're no different.

>>>Why should you be saving it (at least a good portion of it) because you don't need it to raise them now - and from what you have stated about your children the are smart and athletic and will probably go to college - why not save it - you make it sound like saving it for your children's future is ridiculous?<<<

No, the amount I receive goes towards their support, as it's intended to do. Just because my income CAN pay for the bills doesn't mean it should. It pays for what my portion should pay, and the amount I receive for the kids pays for the portion that Ex's child support should pay. The rest is for me to do with as I choose...get my nails done, go on a vacation, play a season of indoor soccer...whatever I want. :)

>>>Do you think the money is owed to you? Not being snarky - just asking - many cps think the money is owed to them - not saying you do - just asking<<<

No, the money is Ex's portion of supporting our kid's needs.

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