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DedicatedDad
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Re: Mom's dilemna

11/02/11 07:55 PM

">>>Do you think the money is owed to you? Not being snarky - just asking - many cps think the money is owed to them - not saying you do - just asking<<<

No, the money is Ex's portion of supporting our kid's needs."

My ex had a different view on that early on, and I'm not sure where the line of thinking came from. Maybe someone could elaborate. We split custody, but in my state CS was based on the NCP's income at the time.

So....she made twice as much as me, but I paid 50% of my income in CS and daycare.....and when the CS would be spent, she would call and ask for more.

I knew exactly what it cost to raise the kids as I had them half of the time, yet CS was about double what I spent on them them with me...so it was far more than enough. Her mindset was that the NCP doesn't just pay for their share of raising the kids....they must pay her share too, or in other words, all of it.

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Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/27/11 04:42 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 10:15 AM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:34 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/29/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/29/11 07:39 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 02:01 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 10:29 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:48 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 10:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:28 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/31/11 12:33 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	11/01/11 06:47 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 08:36 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 11:38 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/01/11 12:51 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 10:30 AM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 02:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 04:37 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:41 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:49 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 06:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:05 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 05:04 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 05:05 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 06:58 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 12:45 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 12:28 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 06:01 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/30/11 01:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 12:46 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 01:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:14 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 02:24 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 02:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 02:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 12:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	10/30/11 09:52 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 07:44 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/01/11 05:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/01/11 09:08 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:43 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:02 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 08:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 08:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/02/11 10:21 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 10:23 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:07 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:16 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:22 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:30 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	11/02/11 07:45 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	elliesmom	11/03/11 01:26 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	11/03/11 05:51 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	SweetLight	11/04/11 01:14 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:33 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/02/11 07:38 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/01/11 06:56 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	11/02/11 07:09 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Sherron	11/02/11 07:15 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 07:10 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	11/01/11 07:20 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	11/01/11 09:40 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 07:55 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	DedicatedDad	10/30/11 09:47 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/30/11 09:18 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/30/11 07:50 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 08:04 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	M5M5	10/30/11 05:59 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/30/11 06:36 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/30/11 05:17 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	Goodmom	10/29/11 12:27 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	spinnerdegrassi	10/29/11 10:55 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	ssmom79	10/28/11 10:39 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	annieo	10/28/11 09:53 PM
Re: Mom's dilemna	youngatheart	10/28/11 11:36 PM
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Re: Mom's dilemna	samatha	10/25/11 01:15 AM
Re: Mom's dilemna	c_jane	10/25/11 08:49 AM
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