ssmom79
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Re: Mom's dilemna
11/03/11 08:24 AM
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If Dad was the one picking them up from daycare, giving them baths, taking them out in the evenings, etc, then how is mom having custody keeping the status quo?
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In this county, at that time, it was status quo to give custody to the Mother and order the Father EOW visitation. He just wasn't in a position to fight for more, emotionally or financially. ***I don't want it to seem like BM was just a lazy parent who didn't do those things, it's just my hubby happens to like cooking, BM did not. My hubby worked closer to daycare, so he got them. You know? It's what worked for the family. But BM decided she wanted to change the family. And at the time, EOW and Wednesday nights was just what the judge ordered.
But that's why I'd like the relationships between the parents to be considered before the 'starting point' of negotiations. My hubby should have started with 50/50, but 11 years ago that was just not happening in this county.
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