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Birthday Party drama
11/03/11 09:57 AM
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DDs birthday is next month. We have a custody order that says we alternate years planning her party, but that the other parent must be included in the celebration. This was put in the CO as a result of ex's attempt to exclude me from dd's b-day parties two out of the last three years (and the only reason he didn't the third year was because we were in trial for custody and he was trying to show that he had reformed his ways). This year is ex's turn to plan. I asked him if he was planning something, and he said he hadn't made any plans yet. DD tells me that she is having a slumber party at her dad's house. I understand that he doesn't want me in his home because we are clearly not on good terms (and I don't relish the idea of being in his home). I don't expect to spend the night there, but I would expect to be there for dinner, activities, cake.
How would you handle this? Should I just suck it up and let it go? I hate that dd's b-day turns into a huge drama every year, but I also hate being excluded from it. Her b-day is very special to me, and it kills me not to fully share in it with her.
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