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Birthday Party drama
      11/03/11 09:57 AM

DDs birthday is next month. We have a custody order that says we alternate years planning her party, but that the other parent must be included in the celebration. This was put in the CO as a result of ex's attempt to exclude me from dd's b-day parties two out of the last three years (and the only reason he didn't the third year was because we were in trial for custody and he was trying to show that he had reformed his ways). This year is ex's turn to plan. I asked him if he was planning something, and he said he hadn't made any plans yet. DD tells me that she is having a slumber party at her dad's house. I understand that he doesn't want me in his home because we are clearly not on good terms (and I don't relish the idea of being in his home). I don't expect to spend the night there, but I would expect to be there for dinner, activities, cake.

How would you handle this? Should I just suck it up and let it go? I hate that dd's b-day turns into a huge drama every year, but I also hate being excluded from it. Her b-day is very special to me, and it kills me not to fully share in it with her.

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* Birthday Party drama garnet 11/03/11 09:57 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama BeckaLeigh   11/06/11 10:49 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Debi   11/05/11 05:40 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama buckwheat   11/05/11 03:46 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama youngatheart   11/03/11 02:50 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Goodmom   11/06/11 04:22 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama elliesmom   11/04/11 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama c_jane   11/04/11 02:18 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Goodmom   11/06/11 04:28 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama DedicatedDad   11/06/11 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/06/11 10:05 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama SRS   11/06/11 08:42 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama youngatheart   11/04/11 02:28 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama elliesmom   11/04/11 02:37 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama youngatheart   11/04/11 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama elliesmom   11/04/11 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama c_jane   11/04/11 07:55 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama LexieBelle   11/06/11 06:01 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama youngatheart   11/04/11 10:35 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama elliesmom   11/03/11 01:32 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama garnet   11/04/11 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/04/11 08:31 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama garnet   11/04/11 09:03 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/04/11 09:53 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama youngatheart   11/04/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/04/11 12:43 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama DedicatedDad   11/04/11 08:53 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Avaya   11/03/11 11:04 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama garnet   11/03/11 12:15 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Avaya   11/03/11 12:39 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama c_jane   11/03/11 01:00 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/03/11 01:25 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama Sherron   11/03/11 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama garnet   11/03/11 12:11 PM
. * * Re: Birthday Party drama ssmom79   11/03/11 12:28 PM

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