Shanti
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Re: Alimony and a Yacht
11/03/11 08:17 PM
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I just sent him the proposal. Will see if he will take, reject or suggest some changes. The credit card debts that I mention (our only debts per se) are of about 20k. The other reason for my strange suggestion on custody that I don’t mention in my proposal is that I doubt I’ll be able to afford more than a one bedroom apartment and I know my kids will not want to go with me when they have all their stuff already in place in this four bedroom house.
The following is what I sent:
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This is my proposal:
I keep the ownership of the house, and relinquish my rights to alimony.
We pay off the personal debts with the retirement and you keep the rest.
That is of course if we would qualify to petition the money from the 401 k based on financial hardship..
In my proposal I move out and you stay home with the kids. We have three options here. We do a 80 x 30 custody or 50 x 50 custody or you take full custody of the kids and I get visitation. You may think these options are strange. My only reason is that it would will free you up from child support payments and you can write off the 3 kids on the exemptions for taxes purposes. Not having to pay alimony, child support or credit card debts should free you up of some money.
When you are better financially and I move to a permanent address we can rearrange the custody.
If you opt for full custody I would negotiate with you a generous visitation plan and I would pick up Stephanie from school. This way I have time with her and you don’t have to spend money on child care.
The advantages of this proposal is that I will not have to go thru paper trail to get my inheritance money back, I will not have to hire a CPA to go over your books or anything related to your business.
Pretty much everything the same minus the wife. You continue to live in the house, you keep the kids, you continue to have the boat on the weekends, you will not have to be spending money with credit card debts, alimony, day care or child support. Although I would still collect rent for the house. Hopefully I’ll find work soon and I’ll try to schedule whatever work I find in a way so I’d be able to pick up Stephanie from school and be with her until you can pick her up after your work.
Again I have no intention to sell the house. I think that my suggestions would be the least disterruptive for you and the kids. I know the business is really bad and you can’t see the light in the end of the tunnel but you have a professional license you can reconstruct your life.
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