Shanti
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Re: we stay together for our children
11/05/11 02:30 PM
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I can't say much because I am in the early stages of divorce. But my stbx and I were in the same situation as you for many years. Amicably sleeping in different rooms. Amicably raising the kids and not even our families knew that all of that was a facade. My kids are 9,16,17. It got to a point where I didn't want to live that lie anymore and filed for a divorce. I feel so happy, so free, so real that my kids notice a huge difference in me (not knowing the reason). My only regret is not doing it much sooner. But again I don't know what my future will be...I just feel free from pretending a marriage that no longer existed. Pretending not only to my children and families but to myself.
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