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Re: Alimony and a Yacht
      11/10/11 04:59 PM

I guess I will stop writing on this thread.
My reason for not wanting to sell the house is being ridiculous misunderstood.
This house has no mortgage so it wouldn't be difficult to stay here and wait until the economy gets better to sell it.
My stbx never saw a house with no mortgage in his life (his 82 years old father still has one). So he is dying to put his hands on the proceeds of the house. I know he has the right to do as he pleases but I have kids that depend on us.
The custody issue was so misunderstood too...there was nothing malicious on my part...all I was trying to do was to find a way that he wouldn't be so desperately for money, I thought by not having to pay cs he wouldn't feel such an urgency to sell the house...it has nothing to do with me finding out that I would have to pay cs to him...omg...so off the mark DedicatedDad.
I have no trust on my stbx's ability to handle money. A man who buys a boat when he has children to raise is not to be trusted. As a matter of fact if we didn't lose our house like happened to so many people lately is because of me paying off the mortgage with my inheritance. Because once he started making 45k it would have been extremely hard for him to keep up with mortgage payments. He is luck that I was unselfish enough to invest my inheritance in the house freeing ourselves from mortgage. It is just natural now that I want my money back otherwise all I did was to able him to purchase a " boy's toy" .

Btw when he bought the boat his family, his friends and I were shocked. Everybody thought it was the most childish thing to do. Of course I now have to fight not to be part of this boat loan that I never agreed to in the first place.
I will definitely get an attorney to speak for me because I can't risk the judge misunderstanding my intentions like happened here. I got a lot of great ideas here and I thank you all, even the ones who called me gold digger and bxxx e.t.c because it made me realize how I need a legal representation.

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* Alimony and a Yacht Shanti 10/29/11 02:57 PM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht spinnerdegrassi   10/29/11 07:39 PM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Avaya   10/31/11 07:57 AM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Miranda   10/30/11 08:55 AM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Goodmom   10/30/11 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Shanti   10/31/11 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Avaya   10/31/11 04:52 PM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Shanti   11/02/11 01:35 PM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Avaya   11/03/11 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht DedicatedDad   11/03/11 09:25 AM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Shanti   11/03/11 02:44 PM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Shanti   11/02/11 02:49 PM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht gr8Dad   10/31/11 01:32 PM
. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Renny   10/30/11 03:30 PM
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. * * Re: Alimony and a Yacht Shanti   10/30/11 05:03 PM
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