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Cassie23
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.

11/11/11 07:00 AM

BM was coming out of a separation from her H...and money was very scarce. If SD was paying for her OWN personal necessities (like toiletries, clothes, school lunches, some dinners and entertainment ) and we were paying for all other extras ON TOP of CS.
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I quoted my own words, because I think this would be a case where one would ask could a CP send a NCP $$$ if the NCP was the one going through a separation and money was scarse? Send money for entertainment for the weekend? Or for a new bedding set at the NCP's because they couldn't afford one there? **(And I know there are cases here where CPs have)** That is my only point- as a NCP you still have to have ALL the same things a CP's house has for the child. A room, a bed, bedding, a lamp, a dresser, etc. Those things aren't only to be had at the CPs. Often in cases (like mine and my Brother and BIL's case) the NCP needs clothing at their house for the child. Shouldn't CS pay for that?

I just spent $$$ buying coats and shoes for my nieces and nephews whose parents are NCPs because the CP refuses to send their coats and often sends shoes worn or ripped. Case in point, BIL was taking the two kids to see his older daughter (different marriage) compete at a game- he asked most recent X to send sneakers or boots and jackets since it was cold out. She sent them in flip flops and a thin zip up.

I can tell you from our experience that SD's bag would have 4 different color socks, no underwear and one shirt for a weekend. She often came without a winter coat and when we bought her one on top of CS and sent that home, we never saw it again. I know SD had clothes, I think her mother often did it deliberately to make things harder for us. So we starting buying clothes and leaving then at our home. It's sad. I just think sometimes people change when relationships/marriages end. Some do not consider what is in the best interests of the children because they are still bitter and resentful from the marriage ending.

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Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 08:32 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	LeAnne	11/09/11 12:21 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 01:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 01:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 03:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 05:45 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 06:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 06:52 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:17 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:32 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 10:02 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 11:07 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 12:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:29 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 01:38 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 02:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 05:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 05:34 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 07:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 02:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:12 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 02:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:07 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 04:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 04:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 06:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 06:27 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 07:04 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:35 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	SRS	11/13/11 08:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:22 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:28 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:53 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:49 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 06:41 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:26 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:53 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:17 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 10:01 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:30 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:43 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 07:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:13 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:50 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 10:55 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:11 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:14 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	RJ1	11/11/11 07:26 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 10:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 01:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:06 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:13 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:08 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:58 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:06 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 01:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:36 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:44 PM

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