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Re: Court today...almost missed it.

11/11/11 09:45 AM

[quote]As a CP I consider CS to cover part of the kids food, utlitites, gas, clothes, and extras.

Extras is a pretty big word around here, you do mean year book, all proms, a car, the smart phone, some kind of kid lessons(instrument, sports), transportation, you know, some of those things that others think should come out of CS.......because they are a right or something. [/quote]

In my head, with my Ex, I consider CS a bonus almost. Something that helps pay for what the kids need and with whats left - what the kids want. Extras are always a want. (school lunches are a want) If the kids want something I figure out if I can afford it with or with out CS.

I can't stop the kids (nor would I) from asking their dad to buy whatever want I said no to. That is his right to chose whether to buy it or not. OS asked me for a BB gun, I said H No. Ex bought him one so it stayed at his house (his right).

The modification I received will most likely help pay for OS insurance until he gets a job. I can't take him to and from a job because I work. There isn't anything within year round walking distance of our house that hires under 18. If Ex and SM want to contribute to a car or insurance? Fine, but you won't hear me asking for it. I bet you will hear OS asking about the car though (lol he is a teen after all)

Extras is a pretty big word around here, you do mean year book - bought them all
all proms - paid for all dances so far
a car - I may try to buy a cheap one but OS will have to pay me back for it. I don't believe kids should "get" a car for free.
the smart phone - I did buy his phone but he doesn't like smart phones they die too fast with texting lol.
some kind of kid lessons(instrument - Done it 3x so far
sports - Paid for it all
transportation - to where? I take OS to and from school everyday so he can attend a school that can challenge him. I take the kids to all doctor appointments, pick them up when sick, friends houses, movies, skating, and one way with Ex on holidays.

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Having one kid makes you a parent, two makes you a referee!

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Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 08:32 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	LeAnne	11/09/11 12:21 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 01:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 01:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 03:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 05:45 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 06:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 06:52 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:17 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:32 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 10:02 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 11:07 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 12:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:29 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 01:38 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 02:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 05:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 05:34 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 07:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 02:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:12 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 02:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:07 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 04:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 04:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 06:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 06:27 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 07:04 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:35 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	SRS	11/13/11 08:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:22 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:28 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:53 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:49 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 06:41 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:26 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:53 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:17 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 10:01 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:30 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:43 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 07:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:13 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:50 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 10:55 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:11 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:14 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	RJ1	11/11/11 07:26 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 10:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 01:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:06 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:13 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:08 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:58 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:06 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 01:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:36 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:44 PM

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