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ssmom79
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.

11/11/11 10:17 AM

We overpay support due to an antiquated system that refuses to recognize 50/50 placement, even though the state forms and the county forms recognize it. Courts just don't like to award it.

On top of the CS we overpay, we also handle most, if not all, extras for the kids and that is all.the.time for the past 11 years. That includes yearbooks, school dances and clothing for said dances, vehicles, most extracurriculars (this year BM paid for 1/2 cheerleading for SD and I was THRILLED), and pretty must any transportation needed. That's for cheer comps, football games, practices, transportation between houses (although it is only two miles). We also maintain toiletries for two households now since both SS and SD have started bringing the toothpaste, toothbrushes, hairspray, hair gel, deodorant and pretty much everything else to BM's from my home. And finally, SD has a very strong vision correction and her contacts are expensive, BM cannot afford that so I pay for them.

So I am no stranger to the extra benefits that BM reaps from the fact we put the kids first in that, if they need it, we will make sure they have it because she can't/won't do it.

You can't win them all...but you can make sure your kids are taken care of. Like Sherron, making sure her kids had EVERYTHING down to the meals for the household. Like DD paying for things over and above child support. Like Redlegg writing checks to his ex to avoid the kids being a bank to a parent. We all make sacrifices for our kids. Just make sure you're recognizing the reason you do it is because they are your kids and you love them.

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Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 08:32 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	LeAnne	11/09/11 12:21 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 01:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 01:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 03:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 05:45 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 06:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 06:52 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:17 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:32 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 10:02 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 11:07 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 12:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:29 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 01:38 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 02:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 05:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 05:34 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 07:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 02:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:12 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 02:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:07 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 04:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 04:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 06:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 06:27 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 07:04 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:35 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	SRS	11/13/11 08:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:16 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:15 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:22 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:28 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:53 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:33 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:49 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 06:41 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:26 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:53 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:17 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 10:01 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:30 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:43 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 07:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:13 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:50 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 10:55 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:11 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:14 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	RJ1	11/11/11 07:26 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 10:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 01:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:06 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:13 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 09:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:08 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:58 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:06 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 01:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:36 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:44 PM

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