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Cassie23
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.

11/11/11 11:11 AM

"My H did that for EIGHT YEARS... "
He wrote checks to bm? Why would he give more money to her when he believed she wasn't handling the cs in dd's best interest? I can see doing what DD did, writing a check to the school for lunches, the year book... I don't understand handing more money to a parent who you believe is already mismanaging what they receive for cs... and a rather generous amount of cs at that in your case.

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He gave her his OWN increase EVERY YEAR (for the first 8 years, when CS was not $1200/month) because he thought it was the right thing to do. Every year he would just add on an increase, usually based on the COLA. So when she went for the first INCREASE after those 8 years H was actually overpaying and CS would in all actuality be lowered.

BM didn't really want an increase and never asked for one (during that time), but H felt it was benefiting SD. Come to find out that BM was getting state aid based off the CO'd CS amount. So she would use that CO to show the state to qualify her for state aid. One of the times that BM became angry with H was when she asked him, in writing, that he had no insurance on SD. Obviously H wouldn't since SD was on his insurance, but she was using state funded insurance so she had NO out of pocket. I think after that her state aid stopped some (although she was still getting part of daycare paid).

H suggested to BM that she use that extra money to get out of the area she was living in, it was pretty rough. Soon BM met her now XH and then she moved in with him, they bought a home together and SD was living more comfortably.

H ALWAYS gave BM the BOD. I really don't know why? She has next to no good in her, I just think he wanted to believe that she did.

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Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 08:32 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	LeAnne	11/09/11 12:21 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 01:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 01:51 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/09/11 03:05 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 05:45 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 06:40 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 06:52 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:17 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:32 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 10:02 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 10:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 11:07 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 12:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:29 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 01:38 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 01:59 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 02:46 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 05:25 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/10/11 05:34 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/10/11 07:54 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/10/11 02:44 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:12 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 02:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:07 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 04:37 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 04:50 PM
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:35 PM
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:14 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:23 AM
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 09:53 PM
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 06:41 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:26 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/11/11 09:53 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	ssmom79	11/11/11 10:17 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 10:01 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:30 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:37 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:43 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:45 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 07:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 09:00 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:13 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:50 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/11/11 10:55 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:11 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:14 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 11:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	RJ1	11/11/11 07:26 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 10:28 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it. DELETED	DedicatedDad	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/11/11 01:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 11:06 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Cassie23	11/11/11 10:58 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/11/11 09:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:13 PM
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Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 10:08 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	youngatheart	11/10/11 10:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 08:58 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:00 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 09:06 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 09:11 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Redlegg	11/10/11 08:56 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Sherron	11/10/11 01:47 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 01:50 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	cpnebraska	11/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 02:09 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	DedicatedDad	11/10/11 11:23 AM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	Goodmom	11/09/11 08:36 PM
Re: Court today...almost missed it.	gr8Dad	11/09/11 08:44 PM

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