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LexieBelle
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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)

11/15/11 09:45 AM

Yup, been there, done that. Ex spends more than an hour but he doesn't do the normal, day to day, handle doctors etc etc etc stuff I do. And he's a hero. OMG! Dad made me peanut butter and jelly!! Okayyyyy, I do that All.The.Time.

It hurts, but it is what it is. They have limited time with the other parent so what does happen, is pretty special to them.

THAT said... my daughter has ALSO said, almost exact quote "Daddy doesn't take care of me as good as you do". He misses meds, doesn't do things the way she likes them, she's come back sick more times than I can count etc..

My daughter loves her dad. He loves her. They don't have an ideal "father/daughter" relationship necessarily but he IS her dad. In whatever capacity that takes. it's my job to facilitate that AND be genuinely HAPPY for it. Because she's my child, I love HER and I love what makes HER happy. It's not about my poor, wounded ego. So I don't make it about that. Doesn't mean I don't get the occasional pang of resentment, but I absolutely HAVE to let it go, and quick. AND, I have to be incredibly GRATEFUL for all the time I get.

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Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 02:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:34 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/15/11 09:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	frustrated_ex	11/15/11 08:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/15/11 02:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 07:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 09:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:33 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/16/11 05:26 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/16/11 08:24 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 02:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 02:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 03:38 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 05:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 09:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 08:16 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 12:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 01:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 01:17 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 01:47 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:15 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/18/11 11:29 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/19/11 05:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 07:11 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/20/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 01:48 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/20/11 02:53 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 05:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 11:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 05:33 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:25 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:40 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/21/11 06:52 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	ssmom79	11/21/11 12:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/20/11 03:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 07:41 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/18/11 08:11 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/20/11 04:27 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:52 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/22/11 09:44 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 04:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 05:43 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DELETED	Sherron	11/18/11 04:21 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 04:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 04:46 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 05:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Anything4Love	11/18/11 02:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/19/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 06:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 08:58 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:47 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	DedicatedDad	11/16/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:12 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 09:45 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 10:34 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 10:51 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 05:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:14 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:31 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/20/11 09:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 10:19 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:15 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 11:23 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:38 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Runswithscissors	11/15/11 07:03 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 01:41 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/15/11 05:32 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 03:00 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 04:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	chaznsc	11/15/11 07:31 AM

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