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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)
      11/15/11 09:37 PM

I don't think your feelings should be hurt. I think you should feel good about it. What it really means is that no matter how often he isn't there, or how often he hasn't come through you haven't projected your feelings about him to them. They don't dread seeing him, they don't know your feelings are hurt because you have kept that from them. I think you should be proud that they are so excited.

My youngest D sees her dad less than once a year. He calls every couple of months and I make sure we talk about him and look at pictures often. I make sure she knows her daddy loves her because even if he's not going to win any father of the year awards he is the only dad she has and he does love her.

My SO, I think has a harder time with with hearing her talk about her dad because he is the one who spends time with her, bought her the bike she wanted so much for her birthday and takes the time to sit on the patio and watch the ants build their houses. He is the one who finds out where the ants go to the bathoom because it's important for her to know that and so many other things, and she adores him. But it's still important for her to know her dad loves her too.

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* Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS 11/15/11 02:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:34 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/15/11 09:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) frustrated_ex   11/15/11 08:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/15/11 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/15/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 09:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/16/11 05:26 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/16/11 08:24 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 09:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 08:16 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 12:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 01:12 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 01:17 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/18/11 11:29 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/19/11 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 07:11 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/20/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 01:48 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/20/11 02:53 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/20/11 11:02 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 11:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 05:33 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:25 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:40 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/21/11 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) ssmom79   11/21/11 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/20/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/18/11 08:11 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/20/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/21/11 12:12 PM
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. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/22/11 09:44 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 05:43 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) *DELETED* Sherron   11/18/11 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 04:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 05:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Anything4Love   11/18/11 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/19/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 06:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 08:58 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:47 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DedicatedDad   11/16/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:12 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 09:45 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 10:51 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 05:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:14 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:31 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/20/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:15 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 11:23 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:38 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Runswithscissors   11/15/11 07:03 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 01:41 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/15/11 05:32 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 03:00 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 04:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 01:04 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) chaznsc   11/15/11 07:31 AM

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