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LexieBelle
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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)

11/16/11 08:12 AM

It is difficult. I had one of those momentary pangs myself last night. "I WANNA SPEND CHRISTMAS WITH DADDY!" I got. Okayyyy... wondering where THAT came from. Well apparently, her father elected to discuss visitation with her, not with me (at 5 years old), and apparently the IMPRESSION was given that ***I*** was not ALLOWING her to spend Christmas with her father.

High road? Got a wee bit lower. And I make NO apologies for it. Truth is, this IS your dad's Christmas BUT he's elected to allow your sister to travel with her mother instead of being with him as she's supposed to be and so he's not taking you for Christmas either, you'll celebrate early. That's HIS choice. AND, your father has an invitation to come HERE for Christmas, if he chooses. Not a big deal.

I'll let x amount go, but will NOT let go the impression that I'm somehow STOPPING her from seeing him on x or y date. Nope, not happening. I wasn't mean, I wasn't upset, I said it as it is, simple fact. And it's NOT a big deal. but I won't tolerate him adding any unnecessary drama with a child he hasn't bothered to understand or relate to. Plain and simple. And when we speak tonight? That's EXACTLY, verbatim, what he'll be told.

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Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 02:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:34 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/15/11 09:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	frustrated_ex	11/15/11 08:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/15/11 02:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 07:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 09:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:33 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/16/11 05:26 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/16/11 08:24 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 02:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 02:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 03:38 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 05:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 09:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 08:16 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 12:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 01:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 01:17 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 01:47 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:15 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/18/11 11:29 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/19/11 05:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 07:11 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/20/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 01:48 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/20/11 02:53 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 05:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 11:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 05:33 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:25 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:40 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/21/11 06:52 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	ssmom79	11/21/11 12:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/20/11 03:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 07:41 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/18/11 08:11 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/20/11 04:27 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:52 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/22/11 09:44 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 04:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 05:43 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DELETED	Sherron	11/18/11 04:21 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 04:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 04:46 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 05:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Anything4Love	11/18/11 02:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/19/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 06:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 08:58 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:47 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	DedicatedDad	11/16/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:12 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 09:45 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 10:34 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 10:51 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 05:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:14 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:31 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/20/11 09:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 10:19 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:15 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 11:23 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:38 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Runswithscissors	11/15/11 07:03 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 01:41 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/15/11 05:32 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 03:00 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 04:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	chaznsc	11/15/11 07:31 AM

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