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Debi
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Re: Hello

11/17/11 03:10 PM

Has he tried to set up visitation even if it's not in the 30 days notice? You won't be "in trouble" for following the CO but the judge would probably want to know if there was a reason why he couldn't see the child even though by the time he tried to arrange it, it was only 21 days or only 14 days notice.

Put the shoe on the other foot. If your child lived a whole country away and you had to travel there to see him/her and the other parent refused because you didn't follow the 30 days notice how would you feel. Forget that he had alcohol problems 3 years ago. Think of how you would feel now, today if the other parent were allowed to take your child that far away and then stuck to the exact wording of the CO. Sometiems it's hard to make plans 30 days in advance and if you don't have plans when he can be there then you should let him see her.

As for the phone calls-----it's a 3 hour time difference. Dependin on his work schedule he may not be able to call you when it's 8:00 at your house. I say cut the guy some slack. He may not be perfect but you chose to have a child with him. Now you have 15 moer years of co-parenting.

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Hello	Tania7120	11/17/11 01:28 PM
Re: Hello	Avaya	11/18/11 06:44 AM
Re: Hello	buckwheat	11/18/11 11:51 AM
Re: Hello	Renny	11/18/11 04:04 PM
Re: Hello	buckwheat	11/20/11 04:06 PM
Re: Hello	Renny	11/20/11 07:24 PM
Re: Hello	M5M5	11/20/11 11:04 PM
Re: Hello	BeachBabeRN	11/21/11 08:01 AM
Re: Hello	DedicatedDad	11/21/11 10:32 AM
Re: Hello	BeachBabeRN	11/21/11 02:01 PM
Re: Hello	Debi	11/17/11 03:10 PM
Re: Hello	Tania7120	11/17/11 04:18 PM
Re: Hello	Debi	11/17/11 08:51 PM
Re: Hello	BeckaLeigh	11/17/11 09:21 PM
Re: Hello	Renny	11/17/11 04:50 PM
Re: Hello	ssmom79	11/17/11 01:43 PM

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