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Sherron
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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)

11/18/11 01:47 PM

"I think that there is certain group that plays favorites or has a double standard- I find that unfortunate."

I usually call them "humans" :)

Cassie, I think where you may have lost some people was when you compared single parenting to intact families... and that "doing it all" was a choice you made when you had kids. I will say it again, many of us didn't make the choice to "do it all" on our own, there was a very different plan in place, one that included a team effort by both parents... and many of us weren't the ones who made that choice to change that. So maybe comparing your voluntary choices with situations that were forced on others doesn't quite work, especially when the circumstances are drastically different... and insisting that "you've been there"... can come across as a bit out there... maybe the best way I can explain is that you have experienced a at one point, and b and c at another, and then there were also e and f for a while. Many single parents live with a-l daily and have for years.

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Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 02:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:34 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 02:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/15/11 09:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	frustrated_ex	11/15/11 08:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/15/11 02:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/15/11 07:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 09:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:33 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/16/11 05:26 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/16/11 08:24 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 02:13 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 02:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 03:38 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 05:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/17/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 09:06 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 08:16 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 12:51 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/18/11 01:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 01:17 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 01:47 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:15 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/18/11 11:29 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/19/11 05:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 07:11 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Debi	11/20/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 01:48 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/20/11 02:53 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/20/11 05:45 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SweetLight	11/20/11 11:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 05:33 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:25 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:40 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/21/11 06:52 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Tweeby	11/21/11 06:49 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	ssmom79	11/21/11 12:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/20/11 03:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:39 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 07:41 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	elliesmom	11/18/11 08:11 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:37 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/20/11 04:27 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:12 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/21/11 12:52 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/22/11 09:44 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 04:44 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 05:43 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:25 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DELETED	Sherron	11/18/11 04:21 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 04:42 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/18/11 04:46 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 05:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/18/11 03:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Anything4Love	11/18/11 02:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/18/11 06:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	RJ1	11/19/11 06:54 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 06:26 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Cassie23	11/17/11 08:58 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/17/11 04:10 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:47 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	DedicatedDad	11/16/11 11:08 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/16/11 08:12 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 09:45 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 10:34 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 10:51 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	annieo	11/15/11 05:30 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:14 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/20/11 03:31 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/20/11 09:49 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	spinnerdegrassi	11/20/11 10:19 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	SRS	11/21/11 06:15 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 11:23 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 11:38 AM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Runswithscissors	11/15/11 07:03 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 01:41 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	M5M5	11/15/11 05:32 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	LexieBelle	11/15/11 03:00 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	BeckaLeigh	11/15/11 04:09 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	Sherron	11/15/11 01:04 PM
Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)	chaznsc	11/15/11 07:31 AM

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