
Annie7676
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Re: I just need wise words Move forward...
11/18/11 04:11 PM
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You said it in your post
"I AM too old, smart, beautiful, strong, and positive for him."
Keep telling yourself that.....cut your losses and move on.
I dont know when you got divorced or how much time has passed since he left...but based on what you shared, good riddance to him.
Each and every one of us deserve to be in a relationship where we are treated the way we deserve to be treated and be important to the person we are with, loved and cherished. Most of us want to be the only person in our partners life and we should get that.
Use your energies in taking care of you...hobbies, new interests, whatever it takes...
I was in a LTM, my X left to find himself...yrs later I found out he had been having a 4 yr affair with the woman he married...had I known there was OW it would have made it easier to move on...
Divorce hurts but its not the end of the world and people can come out stronger and the best part is that for most of us we learn to rely on ourselves and come to really like who we are, assuming we can recover.
Its been 11 yrs since my LTM ended and I must admit I am the most content I have ever been in my life.
Dont look at facebook, focus on yourself and what you want to do with the rest of your life. Its out there waiting....you just have to grab it and jump out there...
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