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Re: Where to go from here?
      11/19/11 08:03 PM

I can tell by your language you are Air Force and I will tell you that the AF is very lax with its "support dependents" 1997 regulation. There is no real set amount of financial support he would have to pay you. (see below for advice) I know when my husband was in a command position he could only "strongly suggest" things to the AD member after speaking to LEGAL about it.

The odds of you getting any sort of alimony on a 4 year marriage is very unlikely regardless of his bad behavior.
Your best bet is to get a civilian lawyer to file a motion and get yourself a court order for child support in the interim, that way you can have his pay garnished while you hash out the divorce details.

You say you want blood and stripes and to make them pay, but you are just taking food out of your and your child's mouth. As long as he is ADAF you will get a child support check every month and your daughter will have healthcare/dental care and an ID card.

13.1...because I am only half crazy!

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* Where to go from here? AvasMommy 11/19/11 07:26 PM
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