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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)
      11/20/11 01:48 PM

I'm just happy that my real every day life does not entail telling your own situation or disagreeing/agreeing, but in a different way as "one-upping".

That at work I can give a different idea, discuss a new theme or thought and my co-workers or boss won't consider that one-upping. That at church it doesn't matter if I donate $1 or $100- it doesn't matter if the person next to me donates a whole box of new clothes while I only donated a sweater because it really does not matter. And especially at home, with my family and friends, it doesn't matter if I have the newest car or watch or that I have to forever be "perfect" with my words or actions because no one is looking to call someone out for one-upping.

I know that every situation is different and I don't mind discussing the differences and sharing one story or another. I don't find that every story off of one posting has to be similar for it not to be considered one-upping or downplaying someone elses' struggles. We all have different struggles and different shoes to walk in- some my have more struggles in their personal life while others struggling in their financial lives.

We are all human, we are all worthy of each others' respect. I am thankful for the feedback I have gotten in the past when I have posted my situation. Some of you agreeing; some of you disagreeing. Yet I especially thankful that in my RL people get me and know my heart. That is the most important thing, for all of us, I hope others have the same things/people to enjoy in their lives as well :)

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* Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS 11/15/11 02:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:34 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/15/11 09:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) frustrated_ex   11/15/11 08:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/15/11 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/15/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 09:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/16/11 05:26 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/16/11 08:24 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 09:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 08:16 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 12:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 01:12 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 01:17 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/18/11 11:29 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/19/11 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 07:11 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/20/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 01:48 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/20/11 02:53 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/20/11 11:02 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 11:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 05:33 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:25 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:40 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/21/11 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) ssmom79   11/21/11 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/20/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/18/11 08:11 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/20/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/21/11 12:12 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/21/11 12:52 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/22/11 09:44 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 05:43 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) *DELETED* Sherron   11/18/11 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 04:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 05:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Anything4Love   11/18/11 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/19/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 06:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 08:58 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:47 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DedicatedDad   11/16/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:12 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 09:45 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 10:51 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 05:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:14 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:31 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/20/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:15 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 11:23 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:38 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Runswithscissors   11/15/11 07:03 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 01:41 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/15/11 05:32 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 03:00 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 04:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 01:04 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) chaznsc   11/15/11 07:31 AM

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