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Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent)
      11/20/11 05:45 PM

Thank you Annieo- I appreciate your words. One thing that made me connect with others on here- regardless of their situations- were that we are all parents. We are all parents doing what is best for our children. We love our children and we hate to see them in pain. WHY they are in pain doesn't really matter, it's this intense connection we each have to one another, regardless of how the package is wrapped.

We had such a wonderful church service today. The pastor spoke about how humans since grade school want to find "acceptance". Acceptance within our peers, our co-workers...that we see a circle- and we want to be accepted into that circle. That we may even change who we are, what we we are like- to be accepted into that circle. Once we are there the gratification is very limited because it doesn't satisfy us completely plus we can't be who we are.

I think even here we often look for "acceptance".

Anyway, I don't often post about my life in specifics because I do not need someone calling my loved one a "jerk" or calling myself or my family members names. I try very hard NOT to call someone names or their family members because every one is someone's child. Everyone is someone's mother or father or sister or brother or grandchild, etc. And maybe in that second you have a small amount of vindication...but what does that get you?

I have seen two or three people in this post connect because their situations are very similar and their struggles are similar. I may connect more with M5's situation or Tweeby's because ours is similar. In the end, if we can do that for one another that is wonderful, but I certainly hope we can leave the name calling and the ill wills behind.

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* Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS 11/15/11 02:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:34 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/15/11 09:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) frustrated_ex   11/15/11 08:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/15/11 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/15/11 07:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 09:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/16/11 05:26 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/16/11 08:24 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/17/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 09:06 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 08:16 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 12:51 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/18/11 01:12 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 01:17 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/18/11 11:29 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/19/11 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 07:11 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Debi   11/20/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 01:48 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/20/11 02:53 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/20/11 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/20/11 11:02 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SweetLight   11/20/11 11:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 05:33 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:25 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:40 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/21/11 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Tweeby   11/21/11 06:49 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) ssmom79   11/21/11 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/20/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) elliesmom   11/18/11 08:11 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/20/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/21/11 12:12 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/21/11 12:52 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/22/11 09:44 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 05:43 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) *DELETED* Sherron   11/18/11 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 04:42 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/18/11 04:46 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 05:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/18/11 03:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Anything4Love   11/18/11 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/18/11 06:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) RJ1   11/19/11 06:54 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 06:26 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Cassie23   11/17/11 08:58 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/17/11 04:10 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:47 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) DedicatedDad   11/16/11 11:08 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/16/11 08:12 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 09:45 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 10:51 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) annieo   11/15/11 05:30 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:14 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/20/11 03:31 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/20/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) spinnerdegrassi   11/20/11 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) SRS   11/21/11 06:15 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 11:23 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 11:38 AM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Runswithscissors   11/15/11 07:03 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 01:41 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) M5M5   11/15/11 05:32 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) LexieBelle   11/15/11 03:00 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) BeckaLeigh   11/15/11 04:09 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) Sherron   11/15/11 01:04 PM
. * * Re: Oh boy! Dad is taking us to dinner. (vent) chaznsc   11/15/11 07:31 AM

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