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Re: Partial Child support payments
      11/22/11 12:25 PM

Gr8tDad - I just wanted to break this down for you, in case it would help.

Child Support is Court Ordered
In VA, one must return to court to request a review in order for that amount to be changed.
Our agreement does not state that we ever HAVE to have a review; VA states one is allowed every 3 years or based on a change of a at least a certain %.
If neither of us ever requests a review, and we are fine paying the original amount, then neither of us are defauding each other.

In this situation, HE is the one not paying his ordered amount and wants a change, but wants me to do it for him. I am not inclined to do things for him any longer as we are not togther.

If he wants a review he is well within in his right to request one and I will willingly and honestly participate, until that time, he is court ordered to pay X amount, and is in contempt of court by not doing so.

I really do not understand what your problem is. Again in Virginia, we could go from the date of our agreement till the age of 18 without ever changing the amount - no where does it indicate that either of us must drag each other to court over every pay increase, daycare or medical cost.

People going to court for every little change causes unnecessary backlogs.

We have done fairly well with our agreement for close to 10 years, bet a lot of people can't say that!

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. * * Re: Partial Child support payments - UPDATED hurryupwait   01/16/12 02:58 PM
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